i would go the "easiest" way devising the gender-neutral animate pronouns from existing gender ones.
sg. o / a > u; i and e are taken in certain way. i also avoid unnecessary similarities to masculine/feminine versions so, e.g. pl. ullu.
The problem with that one is that "o" is already pronounced [u], so "u" is taken. My idea would be to have something like:
subject singular: e
subject plural: es
object: le, l'
prepositional: le
All other pronominal forms (object/prepositional plural, possessives) are already gender-neutral.
Using E as the gender-neutral vowel would theoretically allow us to use -e endings with gender-marked adjectives (ben, bună, bun
e), though in those circumstances the gender-neutral ending would sound identical to the feminine one (both schwa)... I may need to think about this more.
we have to accept that even in a created language such as talossan, these are created newly inside the paradigm. it is an important social construct and there is no shame that it "looks" created. it is a language revolt, in fact, cos language it-self, along with the social majority does not meet the necessity to deal with situations involving gender neutrality on a daily basis.
Given the Ladintsch population of approximately 10 at the very most, I doubt that this is much of an issue.